Alexander Khakimov

"I and my family"

Almaty, 2010

Part 1

Family is a very burning topic, important. All our life, our well-being, our happiness depends on the family. He always lives in a family, if he doesn't even have a family, he was born in the family, surrounded by relatives, brought up, grew, was formed. Then later he creates his family, trying to create his own hearth to create his atmosphere again. Then they transmit this descendants, that is, there is a dynasty, some sequence of these events, there is continuity.

Many things today are lost, for example, the continuity of the dynasties, they are lost now. But we heard about it, quite recently from history. We agree that such families were. There were great dynasties, there was continuity of transmitting some internal knowledge relating to some kind of dynasty, lines. That is, there was the uniqueness of these lines. On Sanskrit, this is the principle of parampara. What you always need to be used when receiving some knowledge, any other traditions.

"Couple pairs" repeats two words - the highest goal of continuity, which means that knowledge is transferred from the older to younger, and the only one important moment In this - how not to distort. Because, distorting the tradition, distorting the essence of continuity, we alienate, here there is a disintegration of the family. At first, this decay occurs at the level of the mind.

For example, we see in nature that in one form of life there is usually some kind of alienation, such strong hostile relations, animals more or less support the world. They do not have people. People arrange revolutions, genocides. There are manifestations of chauvinism, Nazism, nationalism, and in the animal world does not exist. They may make up, crouch, but in principle they live families. One species of living beings are not a slope for hostile actions.

But people can create, so this alienation, which will feel enormity, dislike even to the close creature of one species. Man is a wolf, it happens that, that is, very cruel relationships can be developed among people. Even between close people. It comes to the point that even parents do not understand children or children do not understand parents. Husband and wife cannot understand each other, they all their life quarreled, find out who the main one who will dominate who will dominate.

And here we will follow today, from what the alienation begins, as we become strangers, because in fact, we are not strangers with you. We belong to one type.

And now, people support even the slightest reasons for disagreement. Different nationality - already there is a reason different age - There is already a reason for disagreements. This is for some reason it becomes more important than human unity. If we understand the principle of unity as a whole, we can create and good family. It goes without saying, it includes both the family and the nation, and the people as a whole.

All living beings belong to one family, all this is called in a word - life. Big picture Life, it is diverse. Now it is considered to believe that you need to think about the good of a man, is it true? What about other creatures? Have you met such questions in politics? Only from the point of view of the economy or survival of the species, this kind of disappears, bring it to the "Red Book", it is not necessary to hunt it. Let us replenish its ranks.

So, that is, now in the world of civilized people, in principle, there is no such concept as concern for other living beings. Only small attempts to implement this, in fact, the slaughterhouses exist around the world, well-organized and millions of people are scored every day on a slaughter without anything needed. But it can be a controversial question for someone, but this is a fact. Such is the attitude of a person to other living beings.

But if he divides the form of life, he will share and differences between people, it next stageSo they say in the shares, ancient books. If he thinks that animals have no soul, they can be distinguished simply by sight, they are different, and there is no unity between them, then this ignorance is transferred to a person. The person also does not have a soul in the end, since the animals do not have a soul, but many analogues, similarities between man and animals, the conclusion is obtained that a person also does not have a soul, it is just a biological view and value of life decrease.

Especially in present timeWe know how easily you can destroy people, very easy. The media, any films, completely and nearby are violence - it even likes, in our culture, becomes something interesting, just entertainment. It even reached the fact that in the West in some schools, children having fun, killing each other, just thinking that this is a game, because they see it in films, they do not give themselves a report that such a living being is.

So, we will talk first about the family. The family is united by a few things, this is one language, the nation is also a family, because there is a community. On the street we are talking to anyone and understand each other, because we speak the same language. Food. They are together necessarily eating food, for the family it is important, what unites what we call the family. One language - we understand each other, one food, one economic base, general, that is, the principle of communism. The Communists wanted one family, but they did not figure it out, I have one wife, how will it be common? What is mine, but what is common. Nevertheless could not distinguish that private, that personal property. This border was not very clearly defined. AND common goalWhat are they together why they are together?

There is a common goal between a man and a woman, between husband and wife and a common goal between the whole family in which children, grandchildren, uncle, aunt, brothers and sisters are included. Also a common goal. And the alienation occurs when one of these four things is broken. For example, a language is different, the principle of the family begins to suffer a little or together do not take food, each separately eats. True, for the family it will be flawed? This will adversely influence our unity, our close relationship.

Or we do not have a single goal in life, each has its own economic base. Here look in America modern family And each has its own economic base, his wife has their own account in the bank, her husband has his own bill in the bank. Can this be called family? And they often eat each of themselves somewhere in the cafe, in the dining room, at work, that is, very rarely gather together. That is, then the family is only convention.

It is written in the Vedas, relative to the current time that the marriage will now be considered that people will agree to live together on a sexual basis. This will be considered family. But this is not a family, it is not a dynasty. This is not continuity. It's just a sexual basis, nothing more. From here, the concepts of beauty in the family, culture in the family are changing.

For example, chief Criteria Beauty in the current age of Kali is described, this long hair. Long well-groomed hair will be considered the main criterion of beauty, however, it is difficult now to disagree with it. Seen people without hair, because not beautiful, right? We are very tied to this, that's precisely beautiful, lush, well-laid hair, but, what about inner beauty? People will not pay attention to the century of Kali, they will forget about it. They will be more attached to the exterior. That is, marriage in the age of potassium wears more or less demonstration. Some show, not a family, but marriage. That is, what my wife I have, what is my apartment. Look, what is my prestigious family. That is, based on the show.

For example, what stimulates love, what does love emphasize? How love is emphasized by what things? Gifts, right? It is natural, take gifts, give gifts we speak. If a person loves very much, he gives something valuable, right? He will work, buy some kind of decoration to his wife. Maybe from gold with a diamond, this is the love of the truth? Maybe it also matters, why not, it is impossible to reject it, it's good, give dear gifts.

But look, there is no gold, diamonds, so that everyone equally decorate, however, is it? That is, it can be done only selectively, it is transmitted by tradition from grandmother, these gold jewelry, not the fact that everyone is decorated with gold, such a number of gold you will not find. Also paper money you will not find to recoup all gold reserves, paper more than gold. Therefore, now, at the present time, marriage or love stimulates prestige, the idea of \u200b\u200bluxury.

Now notice how young people come closer and think about living together, they begin to penetrate the idea of \u200b\u200bluxury, there is a standard, an euro-repair, such a car, an apartment. They stimulate themselves living together, happiness, now it is associated with this idea of \u200b\u200bluxury. And since everyone equally luxurious life It is impossible to ensure, they come out of the position of this culture. And some make it an artificial way, that is, plastic. No gold, they do under gold, because there are no gold, so they make gold-plated or clothing instead of silk - synthetics or renovation in the house, there are no such good Materials, All plastic, doors, floors, walls, wallpaper everything is made of plastic.

And they take it, because, this is the idea of \u200b\u200bluxury, she is very close to them. She binds them. As if the relationship now has become somewhat atpon. There are such beautiful magazines mod, there shown as a man says, as a woman says. Now there is a lot of dependence here from this fashion show. There are also Western movies where people are well dressed, all beautiful, well-tried, everyone strive for these standards. Everyone stimulates, they still believe that it has to love very much close attitude. But this is only love at the bottom or what does it mean, is it a show?

Do you know what? This confirms what is written in ancient books - people based on sex create a family. And here is an important point if there is some kind of failure in their sexual relationship, they begin to take intoxication, because they are their basis of life. If you now say a person that you will have no sex, he will not even be able to go to work. Because now it is based on our life, it is Bhava, it is such a mood.

A person subconsciously or deliberately understands, for what he works: there will be money, there will be a house, there will be a convenience, there will be a woman or a man. We will enjoy together, this is our main center of existence. In the center is not a family, but sex in the center. And when, between her husband and wife, sexual relationships are bored, they are satisfied, they lose their interest in each other. You see, what power acquires the sexual basis at this time, on which you cannot build a dynasty, nor the transfer of knowledge, in no case. On the contrary, it overshadowes the mind, and the early civilization it was united by the mind, we must understand that the family is united by a mind, neither the smell to understand that we are one family, nor in photos of similarity to find, external, and understand. To know that we are to one family belong to human society. We are the family of God, we have one universal task, one religion, one economy, one policy for the good of everyone.

Understand the nature of people, learn, accept, as your relatives, this is a mind. But when people lose the mind because sexual attractionThe mind begins to decrease, this is an understanding of the family. They become "Grich" written, the word "Grich" means - closedness. This is a house. We say the house, your own apartment. We need our own apartment, their own separate house, but it also means closed thinking, individualism, closeness from communicating with others.

Why are they hiding in this house? For sensual pleasures sexual relations. How to break this grier, closed space, limited thinking, limited knowledge? Open your doors, once a week, invite to the house good guests, on your own money and spend time with them in spiritual communication to understand that you are one family. Because in material communication you will quarrel if you just have another closed person, this is a fact. This is known to psychologists.

People quarrel without a reason, they are simply not aware of the reasons. What reason? The smell is alien and already there is a reason for a quarrel. They do not understand why they quarrel. Or some kind of profile is not very pleasant. Not like me, not at all like me, is generally so much like me, I can't even imagine myself. Already the reason for distrust exists. Someone's jaw is so hard and they no longer trust each other, simply because the body is different.

But if we communicate with spiritual topics, it is forgotten, you even forget who is a man or a woman in front of you. You feel a completely different feeling, no sexual foundation. And the proximity you feel on the spiritual platform. After all, we are spiritual creatures, there is a Spirit Platform. This is called family. People for spiritual communication are invited directly to the family, and the family is cleared, updated. As if after visiting guests, you feel it, you begin with a new family life. Already the wife is different, the husband is completely different, refreshed by all, updated, rejuvenated. Here he is the process.

Four things.
1. Wealth. You noticed when your husband becomes rich, you seem to become relative (everyone laughs). And when it becomes poor, as if you are not so kinda. That is, wealth is what fastens relationships. We somehow feel the location to rich people, that is, respect exists, there is some kind of convergence. The feeling of kinship immediately appears. That's right if wealth is properly the highest goal. It helps, wealth helps people to communicate correctly. That is, a poor man, he can only speak of his suffering, he cannot discuss sublime topics.

Even a sick person, he only says about diseases, he cannot rise above this topic. Because it suffers. And generally stated in the Vedas that a person should be rich. Everyone. But everyone can not be equally rich, but there is also the following that if you can not get rich honestly, then better stay poor. Otherwise, lose mind, will become rich, but will become a very greedy, very disgusting person. That is, wealth you just will be corrupted. That is, honest wealth elevates man, it is exalted. Dishonest wealth decomposes the soul. It is better to stay poor if there is no possibility to be rich man.

So, wealth see, it matters, this is a rapprochement of people. But we already agreed with you so? What was the mind first, because without reason what kind of wealth could be, agree? If there is no reason where wealth can be, so we will earn wealth, create honest wealth, there must be a mind.

2. The second that brings together very people, makes them related - beauty. Yes? Men agree with me? What anyone beautiful womanYou understand her as your relative. For the first time you see, but so beautiful that they are immediately ready to disappear with it, touch, sit close. Look eyes in the eye, love at first sight is called. Beauty also brings together people.

3. Noble origin. If you are from some kind of noble family and someone else from a good kind, then you feel spiritual kinship, the kinship of the shower. Equally rich, the same you have the amount of money. You are the prince, she is a princess, oh, how good and well. The origin brings people quickly.

4. Education. If you have higher education, and he has the lower you frustrated or she. When you have the same education, you feel that there is more communication, more relationship. So, when people are losing, only these 4 things remain. That is, when there is a mind, these 4 things are also present, but in a different way.

Because there is a problem. The problem is that these things make a danger in themselves, if we are dependent on them, only depend on them. They are coming, temporary nature has.

Here, for example, a rich man. You married a rich man, he went bankrupt, became poor, what will you do? Everyone, you see, you have a problem. We'll have to look for another rich man, so I say, this is already a problem for the family. If you met beautiful man, And then he will sick with a windmill, somehow will become like a frog (everyone laughs), ugly. And you feel that fate deceived you. Disappointed in it, if we are dependent only on these things. If a person has a high origin, and then loses it, the same. If it is educated and disqualified or does not comply with this formation. Complete and beside, now there are many people with education, and that this is a sense? They mainly have no qualifications. How much I did not meet doctors in my life, they all have no qualifications. Maybe I met for my life of one, two doctors who have qualifications, but at least some kind of people can be called a doctor.

I read about one qualified Russian doctor (Botkin). He knew all Russia, still know him. When the patient comes to him, he just looked at him and put the diagnosis and everything, from one glance. Sometimes he could not accept a person, said, go tomorrow, in fact, you also have it. And the person is already leaving, received a diagnosis. Not mistaken, it is a qualification of a doctor. This man is a doctor. And now we have doctors - cars that make analyzes that scan us, probed, measure all sorts of impulses, cardiograms. And the diagnosis is thus automatically. The car can not be a doctor, the car is just a mechanism. Man doctor, he sees another cause of the disease. And sees the consciousness of the patient. He must see this doctor. He must have qualifications in other words.

Therefore, the fact that now people are educated, it is not a criterion, now there are many people educated people who cannot do anything useful in their lives, valuable and for the family is very important. This false prestige is very harming the family. That is, you do not cheat the family. You can deceive someone at work. But in the family, in close relationship you cannot live in this way. Qualification is necessary for a person that corresponds to its nature, and this can only understand the mind. So you go to the dentist, and there is an auto mechanic or businessman in general. To the doctor, come to the doctor, and there businessman says: "Well, what do you cut the kidney or not cut?". He asks you. After all, you do not know the doctor. If you cut, then such a sum, if not cut, then such a sum, you must say yourself. It depends on the money. Here I am a doctor, that is, you understand what we are talking. Thus, we see that it is not applicable for a large family.

People live at the expense of these four things, losing the mind that is now busy with sexy tastes. I am very often talking about it, because in fact it is a disaster. Perhaps many of you understand it now, maybe some are not. But this is a real catastrophe in that now sexy Energy Sucked all reasonable norms and over the past 20 years, which I observe, people have degraded very significantly because of this effect. Everywhere porn, porn, porn, on the internet porn. Films are sexy circle, militants and sex. There are some naked women around the street, this culture is now much spreading, but understand, it destroys our family. This is completely destruction of the personality, the decomposition of the person. Mind loss, because the mind is losing the way when it contemplates the objects of feelings. Just contemplates, feelings are simply excited, and the mind is weakening. Even if a strong mind, but it can relax.

At the same time, a lack of a person is that he thinks he is very reasonable. This is an insult that you say is too, enough already. We have good culture, America advanced country. Europe, west, we are generally oriented. Yes, but this is a hoax, because the personality decomposes. Undoubtedly, as for cars, roads, not bad, comfort has become more, of course, but the family should not live in comfort.

You will think now: "What is he now in general said?" And why do I need a family at all? I work like died all day, I come home and there is still no comfort. That's wow it.

The cleanliness in the family is supported by ascetic.

There are three types of suffering:
1. Adi Daiva
2. Adi Bhuta
3. Adhi Atma

Suffering is what we want to avoid and family for this and intended to get less suffering, isn't it? We will not suffer if we will live in a family big or small, where we understand and love, respect. Suffering less. Family is one of the ways to live happily. But how to avoid these suffering?

Adi Daiva means suffering from external conditions, the volcano exploded right now in Iceland, right? Suffering. There someone went so far, closed the sun, the concussion was, it could cause some misfortune to people. Earthquakes are already waiting in Almaty, will not wait (everyone laughs). By 2012, it is precisely waiting. In the voltage, people are located. This promise seismologists, they say others that it should be a strong, destructive concussion, and under Almaty somewhere in the depths there is a large underground lake, that's all and fall there. These are such people telling people, they are afraid, fear of natural disasters. Because we know what an earthquake is.

Or recently under Tekel, this village washed off the wave of the dam, a three-meter wave. There were quite recently our people, fed people food. Just come feed them. And when they were asked how it was all, they just went away, they could not talk anything. It was just horror. Just a clean flat place, there is nothing at all, some stones. Three-meter wave, just like a cow all nodded, and at night, when people slept. That is, very scary disaster was. Imagine what kind of people have experienced horror. There were so many losses, deaths. This is called - Adi Dive, that is, some supernatural natural powersI can't control or an earthquake, or hurricanes, or some kind of volcano, God forbid some kind of will explode - it's scary. That is, we try to avoid such things, we are trying to envisage, maybe an earthquake may be a volcano. We are trying to avoid these suffering with the help of knowledge. This is normal.

2. Adi Bhuta is suffering from other living beings. In order not to suffer from other living things, I think, now I pumped muscles well, I study Kun Fu or something else, take the weapon, so that other living beings do not touch me. The cockroach came, what should I do, because I'm not a shot from a pistol, I do not use Kun Fu. He does not understand such things, he is much smaller than me or a bug bitten or a mosquito, anyway, I can't apply these things, you see. Or the dog climbs me down to the head or friend will insul. Or his wife tells something to me, I will not shoot her, I do not hit the fist, though. That is, these sufferings are inevitable, Adi Bhuta is suffering from other creatures. Animals, insects, human beings do not matter, we suffer together, not only enjoy. From whom we suffer most of all from the closest people. Therefore, Chanakya Pandit said that the closest enemies for us are our relatives. Directly that the most strong pain cause these close relatives.

3. Adi atma - this attention is paid to this, it is now not very recognized. This moment of suffering the main thing is considered the fundamental. Suffering from own body And the mind. This is now typing this force at this moment that each person needs a separate psychologist !!! Psychologists work now in organizations and in schools, and there, and there. Because there is a circle of mental problems, mindset. This moment is very poorly studied as they manage. But people are trying to somehow relieve these suffering. What a person thinks about himself, about this world, about others, comparing each other, usually he suffers. In comparison, after all suffers. I'm not as good as another. Someone has more money, so she got married, and I still can't get married. And they were together once friends, etc. He watches, he thinks, thinks, and who is the most unhappy in the world answer? Well, of course, I am. Men will not think so, they are stronger. But women will definitely think so. If a woman ask a question, who is the most unhappy in the world, she will answer, of course, I. This Adi atma is called.

Takes new forms and is significantly modified compared to those traditional forms Families that were adopted during the preceding generations.

Practically in all countries where appropriate statistical studies are held, it is noted that the number of people consisting in official marriage, constantly decreases. For example, in the European Union countries since 1980, the issuance of marriage certificates has decreased by half, and continues to fall. Now in these countries every third child is born out of marriage. And divorces? In Russia, 1000 marriages are more than 600 divorces. In the USA - 550. Even in Japan, rich in deep family traditions, in last years There are 250 divorces per thousand marriages. Many, especially older people, these figures frighten, and they correlate this trend "With the fall of morals from youth" and the loss of the Institute of Marriage of their status.

Is this trend really scary? Where are we going? What will be in our age love, marriage, family? Is it worth looking for your half, what are all these torments, if soon families and will not be at all?

What explains what traditional marriage is dying? One of the reasons is the acquisition of a woman of a new status. "Just a woman" is just a housewife, just a mother, just a spouse, "leaves the scene. Everything more women Aware of its importance, true equality with men and begins to live otherwise. It is far from new trend, especially for the European world, however, over the years, the status of a woman as an equal partner in marriage and in his career more and more strengthens its position, and it is in direct affecting the modern family manner.

True, often women are moving to another extreme - try to suppress men. However, this is even worst extremes for marriage. Therefore, need new form

relation in which one of of most important conditions There must be equality of a man and a woman. Any form of inequality is an obstacle to the evolutionary path of mankind. So now people try to look for the most comfortable forms relationship.

For example, there are so-called guest marriages - Everyone lives in its space and only from time to time, by mutual desire, they meet. There are attempts to implement various options Polygamy relations. And many do not want to make out their relationship and "just live together."

Yes, family B. modern world Now suggests various forms relationship. And nothing surprising in it. Only ignorant people continue to condemn the relationship that exist in other cultures. See what is in nature? There you can meet and swan loyalty, I. of different shapes Polygamy. And it is not necessary to negatively refers to a variety of forms, it is not necessary to condemn attempts to find the most reasonable form. There is the right to live in accordance with your submission.

And society need to wisely perceive family in the modern world And strive to provide the greatest freedom To all people so that draws are not violated.

Many continue to cling to the form, creating themselves and surrounding many problems. Trying to keep the shape, not engaged in content, people lose their health, happiness and deprive this others, create problems with children and society. A great delusion is to understand that the preservation of the form of relationship brings happiness to children, and many women in order to preserve marriage actually sacrifice the happiness of their children. The happiness of children depends on the quality of the relationship of parents. These are needed happy parents. Many, very many deceive themselves and others, trying to preserve marriage (shape) in the absence of the necessary content (love and respect). And very often the form of preserved long years Marriage is considered perfect family. Look around, and you will see many examples of how for an externally decent form of relationships lies far from happy life. It is often an surprise (not only for others, but also for the spouses themselves), when the "decent" family disintegrates. It turns out, there was only a form, and she was trying to strengthen it. But the internal stresses, if they are not removed, will definitely blow up any form. What we see around - marriages disintegrate every year more intensively. gives a man more freedom, with the reservation, however, that the person can adequately use this freedom.

Here is an example from life. There are young people. They love each other very much. And he, and she is interesting, smart, modern, beautiful. They still did not get married, only seriously thinking about it. But why are there now in their relationship "slip sparks"? Why do stresses arise, little quarrels flash?

The girl grew up in a nice family, where the world and Pads are between parents. Father works, is a family miner, and the mother is a household at home. The house is comfortable, wealth. Wonderful example of the patriarchal family! They are talking about such families - happy, and put in an example. Indeed, against the background of existing marriages and divorces such families positively stand out. And no one has a question: do they develop? Do their relationship meet today?

And here is a girl, having such an image of the family before his eyes, initially intends to build the same prosperous world. But, as they say, God does not go through the faced path. Next generation Already a more interesting task is given - to show more freedom in relations. On the path of the parents, it will not be possible to pass. That patriarchal structure that has developed in parental family, no longer meets the requirements of time, since it does not give development. Time is now different, the energies are others. This guy, in contrast to the girl, another worldview, different from her father's worldview. And she begins to squeeze her beloved in those framework, to the presentation that she had in consciousness. And the guy does not fit into this procrusteo bed - it is not enough for him, it is uncomfortable for him, so he resists. What awaits them ahead?

Yes, they can get married, but what is the further fate of this pair? May with large probability Assuate that, most likely, there will be problems and divorce them is provided, and the destruction of love ... Resistance will grow and lead to a rupture. Or one of them will break and obey the other. Or they will disperse. In all cases - not the best way For the development of love and raising children.

On this example, you can see more deep reason - The inner non-vitality of the girl laid by the stereotype of the family. And this program makes her consciousness in non-free. And there are a lot of such programs laid down by parents, friends, books, films. Look deeper with what "cockroaches" young people enter the head! In their consciousness, many misconceptions, complexes, incorrect ideas about the world, there is no understanding of the meaning of life and family creation. And every such unit, every error is a non-free. And how many such non-free islands in consciousness? Many, very many.

So it turns out that if such a person, internally incomparable, to provide freedom to external, he will not know what to do with it: or it will suffer "Voznos", or vice versa, he will be closed, it will be tied to his half, and will defend death family values, condemning other forms of relationships. Non-free is in the head.

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Every person has its own unique family with its rules, interests and principles that are often different from others. a family - This is a creative laboratory.

Boring does not happen

Mom is a bibliographer, a musician and a teacher, and I study in the philological class. Therefore, our houses are not bored: Mom times two per week makes scenarios to current events, they rehearsed on the other days. Sometimes at leisure we align the famous songs on their own way. They say it goes good. But the main thing is our hobby - an essay of new words or new values \u200b\u200bfor existing ones. The vocabulary of the family is almost daily replenished with a "newly-made" word. So, "drawing" we do not have anything other than the respiratory authorities.

Achievements of our family

My family is an institution for advanced training. Mom recently received the third higher education and, it seems, is not going to stop at it. The plans already graduate graduate school. I try not to lag behind her, I prepare for admission to SUURGU. But we are improving not only our knowledge. So, mom in terms of construction and repair can already give odds to some builders. Yes, and I master this specialty.

Mom - Assistant in everything

My family is a school of the Olympic reserve. I constantly participate in various Olympiads in the Russian language and literature, passing not only in Chelyabinsk, but also in other cities of Russia. Mom is preparing for them with me: supplies the necessary literature, shares his knowledge, and sometimes it holds me the so-called "brainstorm" (although I often).

Let's help everyone

My family is an information and consulting center. If it comes to philology, my friends and acquaintances are often addressed for advice to me: a neighbor comes to visit, a friend calls, a letter of writing from Zlatoust ... I most likely received this feature from Mom. Her, the education manager and just a man of an encyclopedic warehouse of the mind, constantly call friends, colleagues, and sometimes at all unfamiliar peoplerequiring her help or advice; Its working office is also never empty. My grandmother does not lag behind it, like a experienced gardener, relatives and acquaintances are constantly consulted.

My landscape designer

My family is an agro-seen institute. Since the mother works at once in two gardens - the usual and childhood - its fantasy is where to show ourselves. Every year, Mom comes up with a project to arrange adjacent to kindergarten territory. And this is not just flowers in the flowerba, and various innovations of the so-called landscape design: mountaineering, reservoir, desert zone ... The last two years, Mom has connected to this process and me. About our own garden and nothing to say: neighbors come there as in the museum. Especially beautiful became in our garden after the grandmother decided to plant a multi-colored curious yuy bean along the fence.

Arrange any holiday

My family is a campaign brigade. It is said that our family has good organizational abilities. And in fact, no one wants to go anywhere on weekends, but after holding a certain "work", some of our family suddenly meets the whole company. So, last New Year We met about 80 people on the basis of the company!

Teatrala

Our family addiction to the theater over the past two years has received a wide scale: almost all employees of two kindergartens have become avid theatrons where my mother works. In the same way, we "infected" all familiar pool, karaoke, gardening. And then no one regretted participation in the proposed collective action.

Creative family

It seems to me that the secret of the success of the events held by our family is creative approach to them. Any party we try to spend interestingly, so to speak, culturally arrange. Therefore, my family is also a cultural and leisure center. In addition, we are permanent participants in various urban competitions. artistic creativity ("Crystal drops", "ringing voices", "Childhood", " Creative teacher Creative student "...).

Spend time together outside the city - fun

My family is a laboratory of Nature. Spring for us is the most "fruitful" season: in the garden you need to dig a garden, perch vegetables, put in order to put a garden house in the winter. And someone else has the spring exams, someone annual reports... So in the summer we are lightweight sighing, the worst behind, you can even live a week in the garden, in nature. By the autumn with the bags "in all" hands, we carry the harvest in the garden to their apartment, and then all winter eating these reserves. But Nature is not only a garden. At home, we also grow flowers, and also take care of two family pets with a pele (reducing the "orange") and the Turtle Sebastian.

Never be sad

My family is always fun. First charge positive energy I get when mom is trying to wake me up in the morning. She loves to do it with special ways, every time in a new way, because in the morning I always have something to expect. And then our own full humor language, joint poems, drawing up cheerful scenarios to various events (In kindergartens, where Mom works) ... Almost tradition was the sutra of singing one or two songs that were converted from the famous. In general, once sad.

We are athletes

And my family is a family healthy image Life. In winter, we at the company of good friends attend various fitness sites (sauna, swimming pool), skiing and skating. Also, Mom also teaches me to special ways to preserve health: music therapy, "dance gerapets" and "snow-and-therapy". No wonder they say that the main key of recovery is a good mood.

My family is when we are together!

Julia Nosacheva, graduate 11 f